Sunday, June 16, 2013

My Dad

Today is Father’s Day, and I’ve been thinking about my dad. 

My father is good at many things, but he’s particularly great at one thing—growing things.  His fridge, freezers, and pantry bulge each year with prolific fruits and vegetables gathered from his yard and garden, and, for decades, hundreds of acres of peanuts, soybeans, corn, and cotton were harvested from land he farmed, but it wasn’t only plants I had in mind.  I was thinking more about people.
Just as the plants he tilled and tended required much effort be put in to help them grow and mature, so my dad generously gave much of himself to many around him.  He grew a dating relationship with his college sweetheart into a marriage which has lasted happily over half a century.  He grew three adventurous and curious offspring into somewhat normal and productive adults.  (I’m bracing for the comments!)  His love and guidance are helping nine treasured grandchildren grow in a broader understanding of the earth where they live and the eternity they are designed for.
Though my father would strongly(and rightly) maintain that while we may plant or water, only God makes things grow(1 Cor. 3:6), I will tell you that God used my dad’s faith and faithfulness to grow the ministry of a small, country church from a local focus to widespread support and excitement for domestic and international missions.  During the thirty years he pastored that one congregation, he grew the members in their knowledge of the God of the Word by devotedly teaching them the Word of God.    
Along with his brothers, my father grew a family farm into a thriving business providing jobs and support for many employees.  He also grew the influence and effectiveness of the Christian school we attended by serving on the board for many years,  giving much of his time to handle issues and help the administration, and generously donating finances in times of need.  Because of what he did, thousands of children and their families have grown in God’s love and truth.
We’re instructed in God’s Word to “grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ”(2 Peter 3:18), and my father’s example of obedience has grown my own relationship with Jesus.  Fifty years ago, my dad walked away from a lucrative and secure electrical engineering job to work as a missionary with a Christian radio station in the Caribbean. Through his example, my faith grew to believe that God has better plans than what the world considers best, and my understanding that God’s Word is the only word that matters has increased.
I saw my dad just yesterday and held his big, strong hand as our family gathered to pray before we headed back to Florida.  After the “Amen,” he put his long arms around me and my oldest daughter and encouraged us to read Malachi 3:16-17 in preparation for our upcoming youth camp.  On the drive home, I looked up the reference and found this verse:  “Then those who feared the Lord talked with each other, and the Lord listened and heard.  A scroll of remembrance was written in God’s presence concerning those who feared the Lord and honored his name”(vs 16).
If God is still writing such scrolls, I know my father’s name would be on one, for God’s grace has grown him into a man who daily fears the Lord and honors God’s name in all of his life.  What a blessing to grow up with a dad whose deepest desire was the glory of God, and how beautiful to know that our Heavenly Father says to all who know Him, “They will be mine”(vs 17).
Happy Father’s Day, Daddy.  I love you. Thank you for helping me, and so many others, grow in so many ways.

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